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“Megumi's biological mother and the person Toji gave himself wholly to.”
— Akutami Gege.[1]

ToMema is the het ship between Toji Fushiguro and Megumi’s Mother from the Jujutsu Kaisen fandom.

Contents

  • 1 Canon
  • 2 Quotes
  • 3 Children
    • 3.1 Megumi Fushiguro
  • 4 Fanon
  • 5 Fandom
  • 6 Trivia
  • 7 Gallery
    • 7.1 Manga
    • 7.2 Anime
    • 7.3 Fan Art
  • 8 Variations
  • 9 References
  • 10 Navigation

Canon[]

Toji Fushiguro was a calm and confident non-curse user who was a part of the Zen'in clan. He was very sarcastic and seemed to enjoy conversations with others as long as it pertained to himself. He exchanged banter with his enemies and was very nonchalant. Before becoming The Sorcerer Killer, Toji became unstable while with the Zenin family and soon met Megumi's mother. While there is not much known about her and the relationship between her and Toji, so much so that even her name is unknown, it was shown that Toji deeply cared for her and she may be the only one he has ever genuinely loved. Her death greatly affected Toji and made him very broken. And despite being with several women after her death, Toji never loved them as much as he loved Megumi's mother.

After her death, Toji became a widowed father and eventually married another woman called Fushiguro. She had a daughter called Tsumiki who became Megumi's stepsister. However, it seems that their marital relationship wasn't so harmonious.

Whilst fighting Satoru Gojo in Chapter 75, Toji has a flashback of his wife and son, Megumi. His wife looked happy as she held their son in her arms, and this memory seemed to be very dear to Toji, as it appeared during his final moments before death.

Quotes[]

“Take care of Megumi, okay?”
— Megumi’s Mother to Toji.[2]

Children[]

Megumi Fushiguro[]

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Their only son is a Jujutsu Sorcerer who was taken under the care of the former's enemy, Gojo. He took in young Megumi along with his step-sister Tsumiki.

Megumi has met Toji on several occasions both when he was young and old, however he failed to recognize his father as he had been absent from his life for a long time. Megumi also told Gojo that he did not care about where his father was, and later revealed during his fight with Ryoumen Sukuna that Toji had given him the name Megumi (“blessing”) without even knowing his gender. As for his mother, it is unknown if Megumi remembers her since he was just a baby when she died.

Fanon[]

Toji and Megumi's Mom do not have a 'proper' fanbase yet due to Megumi's mother being a mystery, however they are still one of the most popular ships in Jujutsu Kaisen. "ToMema" is sometimes a background or a side-pairing in many ItaFushi and FushiKugi fanfiction. It is largely popular in the Japanese and Korean fandom.

A song chosen for the couple is Call Your Name from Attack on Titan. Many think this is a song that describes Toji’s feelings about his wife and her death. The ship was later popularized by @_neimana who drew art of the two cuddling together, and @DDub1618 who makes daily comics and illustrations of Toji and Megumi-Mama together with their son Megumi.

Since Akutami has yet to reveal the wife's name, there is not much fanfiction written for the two. Another joke that runs in the fandom regarding them is the, “I can fix him” meme.

A popular trope used in artwork involving the two is depicting the couple as Tatsu and Miku from The Way of the House Husband. Fans like to occasionally mention the couple in Megumi-centric fanfiction as well. On some occasions, Megumi recalls his parents and talks to Yuji and Nobara about it. It is also hinted in many Gojo-centric fanfics, where Toji tells Gojo (before his death) about Megumi, and mentions his wife and her fate. Gojo later finds Megumi and Tsumiki, he then adopts them and takes care of them, sometimes along with one of his designated partners.

It is Toji’s fifth most written ship on AO3 and his wife’s first. On Pixiv, Toji and his wife currently have almost 80 artworks. However, this may not be an accurate quantity since most artworks featuring the two do not feature tags.

Because Megumi‘s mother’s name is not Fushiguro, now more Japanese fans choose to call the couple 甚めマ(ToMema).

Fandom[]

FAN FICTION

Fushiguro Megumi's Mother/Fushiguro Toji tag on AO3

FAN ART

Fushiguro Couple tag on Pixiv

LOFTER

Toji Couple tag on Lofter

WEIBO

Toji Couple tag on Weibo

Trivia[]

  • Akutami refers to Toji as “PapaGuro” and his wife as “Megumi Mama”.
  • In the Jujutsu Kaisen Character Poll, Akutami commented “Megumi’s biological mother and the person Toji gave himself wholly to” on the poll for Megumi’s mother.[3]
    • The translation of original Japanese 心を許した can be interpreted as either “to trust” and “to relax one’s guard”.
  • On Toji's character introduction page in Chapter 79, it was stated that he became unstable while with the Zen'in clan but calmed down after meeting Megumi’s mother. However she died shortly after Megumi was born, causing Toji to return to that state.[4]

Gallery[]

Manga[]

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Toji's memory.

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“Megumi’s biological mother and the person Toji gave himself wholly to.”

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Zenin Family Bloodline Sketch

Anime[]

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Toji's memory.

Fan Art[]

All art in this section is fan made, and must be sourced back to the original artist. It also must have permission from the original artist to be posted here. If your art is here without your permission and you wish to have it taken down, please inform an admin, so that we may delete it.

Variations[]

Fushiguro Family refers to the ship between Megumi Fushiguro, Toji Fushiguro, Tsumiki Fushiguro and Megumi's Mother
Megumi's Family refers to the ship between Megumi Fushiguro, Toji Fushiguro and Megumi's Mother

References[]

Navigation[]

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non-binaryGoJakuHaKiraKenHitoKenJinKenYukiSukuJakuSukUme
polyItaFushiKugiSaShiSu
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friendship GetoYukiGojoYagaMoMaiMiSatoSuguRikoYukiAoiYukiRiko
CHARACTERSmaleChosoKento NanamiMahitoMegumi FushiguroNaoya ZeninRyomen SukunaSatoru GojoSuguru GetoToji FushiguroYuji ItadoriYuta Okkotsu
female Kasumi MiwaMai ZeninMaki ZeninMei MeiNobara KugisakiRiko AmanaiShoko IeiriUtahime IoriYuki Tsukumo
neutral Kenjaku
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FAQs

Did Toji love Megumi's mom? ›

While there is not much known about her and the relationship between her and Toji, so much so that even her name is unknown, it was shown that Toji deeply cared for her and she may be the only one he has ever genuinely loved. Her death greatly affected Toji and made him very broken.

What is Toji's wife's name? ›

Born without cursed energy, Toji eventually left the Zenin clan and married a woman, taking her name "Fushiguro". Her kindness helped Toji change his ways. He stopped gambling and hunting sorcerers and it's likely her influence stopped Toji from taking revenge on the Zenin clan.

Does Toji love his wife? ›

Toji really loved his wife, that when she died, he was left broken and left. Some may think that he was a greedy man who only thought of money. Which is partially true. He did everything for money, he did some odd jobs here and there, was even called the sorcerer killer since he wa even hired to kill sorcerers too.

Did Toji marry twice? ›

Furthermore, for those unaware, Toji married a second woman, becoming a step-father to Tsumiki in JJK. Fun Fact: It was mentioned by the creator Gege Akutami that Megumi's mother helped Toji become his normal self after his abominable past.

Why did Toji leave his wife? ›

Toji's whole life was upended by his need to prove himself. He had a wife and children that he must have stayed with for at least a short while, but he often abandoned them in order to pursue his career as an assassin despite loving them.

Who did Toji have a kid with? ›

Born without curse energy, Toji eventually left the Zenin family and married a woman who he seemed to care about and took her name "Fushiguro". He left his clan to have his son, naming him "Megumi" because it means blessings. But after his wife's death, he re-married and then left his son and step-daughter behind.

How many wives did Toji Fushiguro have? ›

At the end of his life, Toji only remembered his first wife and Megumi. Tsumiki nor his so called second wife was even seen in his memories. He also told Shiu Kong that he took his wife's name. Never did he ever mention a second wife nor a step daughter.

Why did Toji give up Megumi? ›

Megumi got help from Gojo, but it was conditional: he too had to grow up to be a Sorcerer, risk his life for strangers, and accept the fact that he would die a lonely and miserable death. Toji Fushiguro abandoned Megumi because he believed that, after his wife died, he could never be the father his son needed.

Why does Toji hate Gojo? ›

This sudden change in character came about because Gojo's sudden advancement in power opened an old wound for him. Despite his strength, Toji had grown up in the Zenin clan being looked down upon for his lack of cursed energy. Standing in front of him was Gojo Satoru, the current pinnacle of jujutsu society.

Who is Megumi's love interest? ›

TL;DR: Megumi's relationship with Tsumiki has been subtly established throughout the manga from the beginning and is the very core of Megumi's personality and the major reason for most, if not all, of his decisions.

What happened to Toji after he died? ›

Amidst the chaos of the Shibuya Incident, Ogami utilized her own grandson as a vessel to summon Toji back from the afterlife. Through Séance, Toji's physical form and abilities were resurrected, albeit without his original soul or personality.

Why did Toji sell his son? ›

In the few seconds he had before passing on, everything became clear for Toji. He realized he didn't want his son to grow up in the same environment he did, and he definitely wanted to get one last hit off on the Zenin clan, who rejected him his whole life. Jujutsu Kaisen is available to stream on Prime Video.

Did Toji actually care about Megumi? ›

Summary. Toji Fushiguro's cruel and callous nature stemmed from his lack of a stable home and unconditional love, leading him to become an assassin. Despite his flaws, Toji Fushiguro cared about his son Megumi and wanted him to have a different and better life, even though he abandoned him.

What happened to Megumi Fushiguro's mom? ›

After the two got married, Toji took on her last name, Fushiguro. The unnamed wife and Toji had a child, and that child was Megumi, whose name means “blessings.” However, Megumi's mom passed away. Toji sold Megumi to the Zenin family, knowing that Megumi had the potential to become a strong jujutsu sorcerer.

Do Megumi and his sister have the same mom? ›

In elementary school, Tsumiki's mother married Toji Fushiguro and Toji's son, Megumi, became her step-brother. Their parents later disappeared without a trace. She studied at Saitama Urami East Junior High along with her brother.

Who does Toji have a crush on? ›

Toji, along with Kensuke, still retains a crush on Misato, which is shown rather blatantly whenever they're around her. Later in the series, he and Shinji deliver class printouts to Rei, to which Toji reacts in shock of the messiness of Rei's room.

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